Insecurities / Love

Insecurities. I guess thats what all girls are feeling right now or have felt before. Being insecure is just something that girls can't control, even i can't. I guess the reason is because there are so many girls out there who are prettier and better in every single way. For example, just when you have a little confidence in the way you look today, another girl whom is much better looking will magically appear out of no where and your confidence level just goes like bam, and its gone. Seeing another girl who's so much better definitely will make other girls insecure. Probably that girl you see have thigh gaps, collar bones, nice waist, flawless skin, and nice features. Thats all it takes to bring a girl's confidence level down. I always question myself, why can't that girl who's nearly perfect be me? Also, is it just me or whenever a guy confesses, i'll always think " Why do you like me? There are so many prettier girls out there and you chose me. Is this some kind of joke? " Its like i'll never believe in guys that confess to me. Reasons being, 1) I'm not pretty, 2) I'm never good enough, 3) They'll get bored of me. There are so many other reasons to list but i guess thats the main three. Every girl always fear that they're never good enough for a guy whom they love. I guess we girls should start loving and accepting ourselves more. Its scary to know that many girls out there tries to go on diet just because they think they're fat when they're nearly anorexic. We should start accepting ourselves for who we are, regardless of our weight, height etc. Everyone is unique in their own ways. Leading on to finding your true love, if a guy really loves you, he'll accept you for who you are, and not want you to try to be others. If not, thats not love. Thats why they say its called falling in love. (?) Cause we shouldn't find love, we should let love find us. When you try to make a guy like you, that guy might or might not like you back. Whats meant to be will be, why bother trying so hard, right? We can't force love anyway . I know, being in love or in a relationship can be a wonderful thing, but if we rush into being in a relationship just cause you think you like that person, then you'll end up questioning yourself about whether you made the right choice from the start. Let time decide on who to love and when to love, then when the right one comes, only will you last and be happy :-)